I’m Rebecca Perkins, and please know this one thing: You are exactly where you need to be, my lovely.
I know what it’s like to be shattered by the end of a relationship, to feel entirely at sea after a divorce. I’ve been through every one of those feelings, hopeless and helpless and utterly undone. As I navigated those rocky waters, I discovered some sublime truths. It’s now my passion to share these truths with women like you, women just beginning the journey I’ve travelled.
What I realised in the course of picking up the pieces is that my so-called comfort zone – my life before divorce – really wasn’t so comfortable after all. It was suffocating. But like so many woman, the fear I felt at facing the unknown was so great, I didn’t realise it’s what would ultimately set me free.
The pain you are feeling now can become a comfort zone of sorts too; at least it’s familiar, in this space where nothing about your life is the same anymore. Are we brave enough to consider giving up that pain, that suffocation, in order to embrace life from a fresh perspective? I believe we are. We must be. We know too much about life and its potential to do otherwise.
The hard part, of course, is knowing how to begin.
There’s a beautiful word in the Japanese language known as kintsukuroi (keen-tsoo-koo-roy). Japanese kintsugi artisans repair broken pottery with gold or silver lacquer, with the understanding that the piece is all the more beautiful for having been broken. It’s a lovely metaphor to help you understand the process you are about to go through.
You’ve been shattered, and you know it’s time to piece yourself back together. You can choose to do so in silver and gold, crafting something strikingly new and beautiful out of the life you once knew. You are a new person now, and you have every right and every reason to recreate the narrative of your life in a way that truly brings you joy.
Are you ready to move on? Are you ready to start living again? Do you believe, even a little bit, that it’s your right to be happy and joyful again?
I’ll take you step by step on this journey, documented from my own post-divorce experience with input from some amazing women who have also walked this path. You’ll find, as we walk this path together, a deepening sense of satisfaction that you’ve done something vitally important for yourself. Having spent no doubt many years looking after the needs of others, it’s time to learn how to focus on your needs and spend time working through this online learning programme.
Working through each lesson will move your life forward in the direction you choose to take it. I believe that you can. I’m your cheerleader. I know you can do it because I did it.
Your first step is to choose the version of the program that looks right for you.
Perfect if you are perhaps short on time, or are highly committed to taking action on your own. You are comfortable moving at your own pace and just need the right questions to ask to make those changes you seek in your life. With the Journey Lite, you’ll receive:
A complete programme for growth and healing, designed for those who want more from me (and themselves!) You will feel like you are sitting in my living room among a group of friends as I talk through different aspects of the programme. Includes everything in the Lite version plus:
Our most immersive experience, designed for those of you who want hands-on support to keep you motivated, inspired and accountable for making the changes you are committed to making. I’ll be available each week reviewing how you’re getting on, talking through stumbling blocks and keeping you inspired. The VIP Journey includes everything in the Lite and Comprehensive versions above plus:
"Rebecca has insight and clarity and is able to put her finger on the ideas that resonate and enable you to make the changes which benefit you. From the awareness of the language you use to the strengths you forgot you have to the potential that is there. She gives you the confidence to look at your life and explore, without judgement or pressure, how you can take the next step. We all need this kind of self care and inspiration." JS
When you register you’ll receive your first lesson, which will include an introductory video from me, PDFs and worksheets to get you started.
A new lesson will follow every week for six weeks.
And don’t worry; if you miss an email or get off track, you can easily log into your account to access all previous lessons; they’re yours forever.
I’m a woman in her early 50s, embracing midlife and reinventing herself with first hand experience of the many changes we are facing in midlife. I know what it’s like to experience periods of low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence. I’ve suffered years of depression and have come through it, stronger and more at ease with who I am. I’m an explorer and live with the belief that we create our own experience of life via our thinking.
I’m a qualified NLP Master Practitioner and Coach and the author of Best Knickers Always: 50 Lessons for Midlife. My writing is regularly featured in the Huffington Post and on The Guardian Soulmates Blog and I’m the Midlife Dating Expert for eHarmony.
Click the button below to purchase the course level that works best for you.
And don’t worry; if you are not 100% thrilled with the course contents, I will refund your money and wish you all the best.
If you are not 100% thrilled with the course contents, I will refund your money and wish you all the best.